Plus One Etiquette

Navigating the plus one wedding etiquette isn’t an easy situation when you’re planning your wedding but it’s a feat that needs to be made. Despite these uncertain waters, we’re here to help you navigate them and make your decision a bit easier. Follow these rules that are tried and true for all your plus-one wedding questions.

Let’s start with the bridal party – everyone in the bridal party should receive a plus one. A happy wedding party means a happy wedding. Plus, it’s a simple way to show your appreciation to your inner circle. Use it as a “thank you” for the help your bridal party has given you throughout the planning process.

As a rule of thumb, only married, engaged and cohabitating guests traditionally receive a plus-one. You can assume that these couples would be arriving to your big day together and gifting together as well!

When planning your seating chart, make sure you accommodate for single friends who are attending so you can map out who you would want to bring a plus one! It’s always important to help make your guests feel comfortable so everyone is having fun.

Another simple step – include the plus-one option on your invitation. This is a great way to see who is bringing who so you have an idea of who you will be accommodating!

Lastly – be prepared for your guests to ask if they are able to bring a plus-one! Remember that it’s okay to say no – it’s your big day after all! Let that guest know that you want an intimate evening.

At the end of the day, your wedding is all about you and your spouse creating the day of your dreams. Don’t let your guests dictate your day because it is all about you!